Here, Kate reveals the very beginnings of the just-keeps-getting-better Kate-Pete story (the part before the can’t-top-it-carnival-celebration). As surely it will in you too, their sweet beginnings inspired in me a big, juicy “awwww” (right after I thought, of course only to myself, which now is not going to be private because I’m saying it without hesitation to thousands of readers: “Hey – I’d sure like to read a few of those saucy letters!” But then I recalled my unwavering commitment to keeping this a PG13 blog. Shucks). Anyway … on to the ever-sweet-and-love-letter-filled-life, chapter 2, of Kate and Pete. Enjoy!
“The Story of Us”
– by Kate Woodman Middlecamp
Peter had been on Match.com (this during the Dr. Phil “Mind. Find. Bind.” era of Match) for awhile before I joined. Working through the end of a very complicated relationship, he was looking for someone worthy of moving on with and had been on a few dates – dates worthy of a few good stories, but not much more. When I found his profile through a search – we were not, funnily enough, matched by the website automatically – I was taken aback. Like my own freshly written profile, Peter chose to acknowledge the quirkiness that is online dating with humor and wit; a fake interview with himself, in fact. I read his profile, laughed harder than I had in months, and a little
flutter started in my heart.
I must admit, I thought then (and still do) that he was WAY out of my league, and so, initially I didn’t reach out. I just waited. And re-read his profile 20 times a day. For days. And then got sick of myself and summoned the courage to send him a simple message of gratitude for the laughs. To my delight, he wrote back almost immediately and the real story of Kate and Pete began.
We exchanged e-letters a few times a week, which quickly progressed to a few times a day. Letters every bit as witty and funny as the online profiles we had worked so hard to perfect. And, as we got to know each other better, letters that were sweet, and vulnerable, and yes, even a bit saucy at times. We crafted whimsical and silly stories for each other that illuminated – in a magical way – who we really were, and who we wanted to be, and hinted at who we might become together. I think, even then, we knew somewhere deep down that our stories might be best told as one.
As a married couple, just now a few months past our 4th anniversary, we still use written word as a way to express, celebrate and reconnect. It is not unusual, after a particularly glorious string of
|The real deal: Kate + Pete + the written word = deep-in-love connection.|